COMFORT.GUIDE ....."I will heal him; I will guide him and restore comfort to him, creating praise on the lips of the mourners..." (Isaiah 57, NIV)
  • HOME
  • WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW!
  • FACILITATOR'S GUIDE
    • CHANGE AND GRIEF
    • WEEKS 1 & 2
    • WEEKS 3 & 4
    • WEEKS 5 & 6
    • WEELS 7 & 8
    • WEEKS 9 & 10
    • WEEKS 11 & 12
    • WEEKS 13 & 14
    • WEEKS 15 & 16
    • WEEKS 17 & 18
  • WEEKS 1 & 2 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK 1 ... OUTLINE >
      • A WOMAN AT A WELL
      • SEEING OUR EARLY LOSSES CLEARLY
      • WHO DO YOU CRY OUT TO?
      • WHO IS HE???
      • PSALM 139
    • WEEK 2 ... OUTLINE >
      • LIVING IN BETHSAIDA
      • SEEING EARLY LOSSES, WITH AGES
      • WKSHEET - HEALING OF MEMORIES...
      • TELLING MY STORY - COMFORT AND HEALING OF MEMORIES/NARRATIVE
      • TELLING MY STORY
      • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 1
  • WEEKS 3 & 4 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK THREE OUTLINE ... "TELLING MY STORY - I FELT" >
      • KNOWING JESUS OR...
      • TELLING MY STORY - I FELT
      • THIS IS WHAT I DO!
      • P.S. - FAITH, FEELINGS & CANCER
    • WEEK FOUR OUTLINE ... "TELLING MY STORY - I FELT" >
      • EMMANUEL
      • SEEING OUR LOSSES CLEARLY - EXTENDED SCALE
      • DELIGHTING IN A VISIT
      • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 2
  • WEEKS 5 & 6 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK FIVE OUTLINE - TELLING MY STORY - "I FELT TO I LOST" >
      • NOTICING A WIDOW
      • COMPARING DIFFERENT VOICES
      • STAGES OF GRIEF
    • WEEK SIX OUTLINE - TELLING MY STORY - "I FELT TO I LOST" >
      • PETER - WAITING FOR INSPIRATION AND POWER!
      • THE HOLY SPIRIT
      • TELLING MY STORY - I LOST
      • MUST AND SHOULD
      • MINDFULLY ATTACHING TO GOD
      • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 3
  • WEEKS 7 & 8 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK SEVEN OUTLINE - “I CAME TO BELIEVE" >
      • WHAT IS ON HIS PALM?
      • TELLING MY STORY - I CAME TO BELIEVE
      • TELLING MY STORY - MUST AND SHOULD
      • GOOD SHEPHERD
    • WEEK EIGHT OUTLINE - “I CAME TO BELIEVE" >
      • A MAN WITH A SHRIVELED HAND
      • WOUNDED HEARTS THINK WOUNDING THOUGHTS
      • IDENTIFYING PERSONAL TRIGGERS/WORKSHEET
      • WHAT GRACE LOOKS LIKE
      • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 4
  • WEEKS 9 & 10 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK NINE OUTLINE - "TELLING MY STORY - I CAME TO BELIEVE TO I ACTED" >
      • THE WIDOW OF NAIN
      • TELLING MY STORY - I ACTED
      • UNFAILING LOVE, AND WORK
      • HE REACHES OUT FIRST
    • WEEK TEN OUTLINE - "TELLING MY STORY - I CAME TO BELIEVE TO I ACTED" >
      • INHERITANCE FOR SONS
      • DEFENSE MECHANISMS
      • INHERITANCE FOR WHOM?
      • A JOURNEY
  • WEEKS 11 & 12 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK ELEVEN OUTLINE - "RENEWING MY MIND - FAITH, FEELINGS AND FORGIVENESS" >
      • TAKING JESUS AT HIS WORD/JAIRUS
      • TAKING JESUS AT HIS WORD/OFFICIAL
      • I WANT TO WALK!
      • GRACE FOR AN "OUTSIDER?"
    • WEEK TWELVE OUTLINE - "RENEWING MY MIND - FAITH, FEELINGS AND FORGIVENESS" >
      • WANTING TO GET WELL, OR?
      • FORGIVENESS/CHOICE
      • FORGIVE/COMFORT
  • WEEKS 13 & 14 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK THIRTEEN OUTLINE - REWRITE - "I CAME TO BELIEVE ... AND I GAINED" >
      • ZACCHAEUS
      • REWRITE - CRYING OUT - SEEING OUR LOSS CLEARLY
      • MY SERVANT
    • WEEK FOURTEEN OUTLINE - "I CAME TO BELIEVE AND I GAINED" >
      • ARE YOU KNOWN?
      • REWRITE - TELLING MY STORY - I CAME TO BELEIVE
      • MUST AND SHOULD W/ SCRIPTURE
      • REWRITE - WOUNDED HEARTS THINK WOUNDING THOUGHTS
      • A FATHER'S DELIGHT
  • WEEKS 15 & 16 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK FIFTEEN OUTLINE - RE-WRITE! “I GAINED” to “I AM SET FREE TO FEEL” >
      • GARDENING
      • USES OF MEMORY
      • RE-WRITE MY STORY - COMFORT AND HEALING OF MEMORIES
      • NATHANIEL AND A FIG TREE
    • WEEK SIXTEEN OUTLINE - RE-WRITE! "I GAINED" TO i AM SET FREE TO FEEL" >
      • HIS PLANS FOR US
      • RE-WRITE MY STORY - COMFORT AND HEALING OF MEMORIES
      • WHOSE PLANS ARE BETTER?
  • WEEKS 17 & 18 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK SEVENTEEN OUTLINE - "BOUNCE!" >
      • A CHANGE OF PLANS
      • ENVISIONING FREEDOM
      • REWRITE - DEFENSE MECHANISMS
    • WEEK EIGHTEEN OUTLINE >
      • EXPECTATIONS!
  • INDEX
  • TOOL KIT
    • A, B, C's
    • RELAXED BREATHING
    • GROUNDING STRATEGIES
    • PROGRESSIVE RELAXATION
  • CREDITS
  • CONTACT US
  • WONDERFULLY MADE/SCRIPTURE AND SCIENCE
    • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 1
    • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 2
    • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 3
    • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 4

Knowing Jesus vs

knowing about Jesus

Scripture gives us an excellent example in two separate stories, both of which took place on Easter.  Mary, who was an outcast when she crossed paths with Jesus, began a relationship in getting to know Jesus.  She knew that Jesus knew her intimately, including her past, her fears, her shame, and her thoughts.  They became friends who knew what each other was thinking before the words were on the other person’s lips.  She knew him in her heart.
 
Early on the first day of the week, while it was still dark …Mary Magdalene stood outside the empty tomb crying.  As she wept, she bent over to look into the tomb and saw two angels in white, seated where Jesus’ body had been.
 
They asked her, “Woman, why are you crying?”
 
“They have taken my Lord away, and I do not know where they have put him.”  At this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, but she did not recognize that it was Jesus.
 
“Woman, why are you crying?  Who is it you are looking for?”
 
Thinking he was the gardener, she said, “Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him.”
 
Jesus said to her, “Mary.”
 
She turned to him and cried out: Rabbi!

 
She knew the sound of his voice, she knew his thoughts toward her, she knew the kindness in his eyes.  Jesus had entered her life.  They were best friends.
 
Later that day, Jesus took a walk with some of his followers who knew Jesus, but it seems that they knew him in a more impersonal way, a factual way, a theological way.  Good men to be sure, but they simply hadn’t made the kind of personal contact that Mary had.  They knew him in their heads.
 
 
Now on that same day (Easter Sunday), two of (Jesus’ followers) were going to a village called Emmaus, about seven miles from Jerusalem.  They were talking to each other about everything that had happened.  As they talked … Jesus himself came up and walked along with them; but they were kept from recognizing him.
 
He asked them, “What are you discussing together as you walk along?”  They stood still, their faces downcast.  One of them, named Cleopas, asked him, “Are you only a visitor to Jerusalem and do not know the things that have happened there in these days?”  Jesus said, “What things?”
 
“About Jesus of Nazareth … the chief priests and our rulers crucified him; but we had hoped he was the one who was going to redeem Israel.  And in addition, some of our women ... told us of a vision of angels, who said he was alive.”
 
And beginning with Moses and all the prophets, (Jesus) explained to them what was said in all the Scriptures concerning himself.  As they approached the village to which they were going … Jesus went in to stay with them.  When he was at the table with them, he took bread, gave thanks, broke it and began to give it to them.  Then their eyes were opened and they recognized him, and Jesus disappeared from their sight.  They asked each other, “Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road and opened the Scriptures to us?”

 
They got up and returned at once to Jerusalem ... they found the Eleven and those with them, assembled together and said, “It is true!  The Lord has risen…”

 
Note that just a word was enough for Mary, but Jesus knew that these two followers needed teaching and inspiration; they needed to see the big picture and how everything was interrelated.
 
Sometimes people like you and I attend church for years and we have learned about Jesus, but we haven’t yet met Jesus. 
 
Meeting him personally, and experiencing his overwhelming personal attention, is what Comfort.Guide is all about!
 
 
PAUSE … Take some time here for quiet reflection.
 
 
REFLECT ...
 
Ask for insight to become aware of your personal answer to the following question:

Do you know only about Jesus, or are you like Mary, who experienced personally His life changing power for comfort and healing? 
 
Perhaps you have realized by reflecting on the above question that you only know “about” Jesus but you have not met Him personally.  He wants you to hear Him call you by name.  Right now, it is important to RELEASE any expectations that you, in your own strength, wisdom or intelligence can grasp about Jesus. 
 
 
RECEIVE ...
 
Simply ask Him to come and get to know Him!  Begin a conversation with Jesus asking Him to reveal Himself to you, to call you by name and to reveal His love for you. 
 
“Jesus, open the eyes of my heart to know who you really are as Savior, how you think and feel as a person, and how you want to heal and love me as a person.  Reveal yourself to me as you did to Mary and the men on the road to Emmaus.”


Sometimes a picture is worth "a thousand words".  We invite you to log on to DavidBowmanArt.com, then click on "Expressions of Christ".  Perhaps there is a particular painting there that would mean so much to you at this time in your journey!  And you can always Google sites such as "Jesus with women pictures", "Jesus with men pictures", "Jesus with children pictures", etc.  


Click HERE to return to "Week 3 Outline".

Click HERE to go to the next page "Telling My Story - I Felt".