COMFORT.GUIDE ....."I will heal him; I will guide him and restore comfort to him, creating praise on the lips of the mourners..." (Isaiah 57, NIV)
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    • WEEK 1 ... OUTLINE >
      • A WOMAN AT A WELL
      • SEEING OUR EARLY LOSSES CLEARLY
      • WHO DO YOU CRY OUT TO?
      • WHO IS HE???
      • PSALM 139
    • WEEK 2 ... OUTLINE >
      • LIVING IN BETHSAIDA
      • SEEING EARLY LOSSES, WITH AGES
      • WKSHEET - HEALING OF MEMORIES...
      • TELLING MY STORY - COMFORT AND HEALING OF MEMORIES/NARRATIVE
      • TELLING MY STORY
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    • WEEK THREE OUTLINE ... "TELLING MY STORY - I FELT" >
      • KNOWING JESUS OR...
      • TELLING MY STORY - I FELT
      • THIS IS WHAT I DO!
      • P.S. - FAITH, FEELINGS & CANCER
    • WEEK FOUR OUTLINE ... "TELLING MY STORY - I FELT" >
      • EMMANUEL
      • SEEING OUR LOSSES CLEARLY - EXTENDED SCALE
      • DELIGHTING IN A VISIT
      • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 2
  • WEEKS 5 & 6 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK FIVE OUTLINE - TELLING MY STORY - "I FELT TO I LOST" >
      • NOTICING A WIDOW
      • COMPARING DIFFERENT VOICES
      • STAGES OF GRIEF
    • WEEK SIX OUTLINE - TELLING MY STORY - "I FELT TO I LOST" >
      • PETER - WAITING FOR INSPIRATION AND POWER!
      • THE HOLY SPIRIT
      • TELLING MY STORY - I LOST
      • MUST AND SHOULD
      • MINDFULLY ATTACHING TO GOD
      • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 3
  • WEEKS 7 & 8 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK SEVEN OUTLINE - “I CAME TO BELIEVE" >
      • WHAT IS ON HIS PALM?
      • TELLING MY STORY - I CAME TO BELIEVE
      • TELLING MY STORY - MUST AND SHOULD
      • GOOD SHEPHERD
    • WEEK EIGHT OUTLINE - “I CAME TO BELIEVE" >
      • A MAN WITH A SHRIVELED HAND
      • WOUNDED HEARTS THINK WOUNDING THOUGHTS
      • IDENTIFYING PERSONAL TRIGGERS/WORKSHEET
      • WHAT GRACE LOOKS LIKE
      • "WONDERFULLY MADE" - 4
  • WEEKS 9 & 10 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK NINE OUTLINE - "TELLING MY STORY - I CAME TO BELIEVE TO I ACTED" >
      • THE WIDOW OF NAIN
      • TELLING MY STORY - I ACTED
      • UNFAILING LOVE, AND WORK
      • HE REACHES OUT FIRST
    • WEEK TEN OUTLINE - "TELLING MY STORY - I CAME TO BELIEVE TO I ACTED" >
      • INHERITANCE FOR SONS
      • DEFENSE MECHANISMS
      • INHERITANCE FOR WHOM?
      • A JOURNEY
  • WEEKS 11 & 12 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK ELEVEN OUTLINE - "RENEWING MY MIND - FAITH, FEELINGS AND FORGIVENESS" >
      • TAKING JESUS AT HIS WORD/JAIRUS
      • TAKING JESUS AT HIS WORD/OFFICIAL
      • I WANT TO WALK!
      • GRACE FOR AN "OUTSIDER?"
    • WEEK TWELVE OUTLINE - "RENEWING MY MIND - FAITH, FEELINGS AND FORGIVENESS" >
      • WANTING TO GET WELL, OR?
      • FORGIVENESS/CHOICE
      • FORGIVE/COMFORT
  • WEEKS 13 & 14 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK THIRTEEN OUTLINE - REWRITE - "I CAME TO BELIEVE ... AND I GAINED" >
      • ZACCHAEUS
      • REWRITE - CRYING OUT - SEEING OUR LOSS CLEARLY
      • MY SERVANT
    • WEEK FOURTEEN OUTLINE - "I CAME TO BELIEVE AND I GAINED" >
      • ARE YOU KNOWN?
      • REWRITE - TELLING MY STORY - I CAME TO BELEIVE
      • MUST AND SHOULD W/ SCRIPTURE
      • REWRITE - WOUNDED HEARTS THINK WOUNDING THOUGHTS
      • A FATHER'S DELIGHT
  • WEEKS 15 & 16 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK FIFTEEN OUTLINE - RE-WRITE! “I GAINED” to “I AM SET FREE TO FEEL” >
      • GARDENING
      • USES OF MEMORY
      • RE-WRITE MY STORY - COMFORT AND HEALING OF MEMORIES
      • NATHANIEL AND A FIG TREE
    • WEEK SIXTEEN OUTLINE - RE-WRITE! "I GAINED" TO i AM SET FREE TO FEEL" >
      • HIS PLANS FOR US
      • RE-WRITE MY STORY - COMFORT AND HEALING OF MEMORIES
      • WHOSE PLANS ARE BETTER?
  • WEEKS 17 & 18 - BRIDGE & OUTLINES
    • WEEK SEVENTEEN OUTLINE - "BOUNCE!" >
      • A CHANGE OF PLANS
      • ENVISIONING FREEDOM
      • REWRITE - DEFENSE MECHANISMS
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REFLECTION

Grace for an "Outsider"?

"REFLECTIONS" pages are encouragement for you taken directly from Scripture.  We invite you to let these truths sink down deep inside you, and to begin to know, understand and feel Comfort directly from our Father in heaven, designed especially for you and where you are at in life!  Please take time for the Pause, Reflect and Receive at the end of every REFLECTION.

We are placing this reading here, in Week #10, because one of the strongest temptations you will have to distract you from healing and growth is that you don't "belong".  You are not good enough!  Hopefully the following with help you deal with that lie!!!


Is Grace available just to "good" people, "church" people, "believers"?

One idea we hear is that God is somewhat distant, somewhat detached, only an observer, a record keeper, a watcher from the sidelines, reserved and sitting on a throne in heaven, maybe even not remembering our name.  Dull!  If you ever think that, there’s a little story in the tenth chapter of Acts that is an absolute “must” read.  It’s the story of a Roman centurion by the name of Cornelius, a man quite like us.  It gives us a deep insight into God's powerful desire to bless us, regardless of our past or where we are now.

Briefly, Cornelius was a Roman soldier, a Gentile, an infidel, an officer of a cruel occupying army.  Jews would normally have nothing to do with him.  Yet the story tells us that Cornelius was an honorable man, helping the poor, praying in his own way to whoever God really was and wanting to know him intimately.  And God noticed him (a non-Jew, an infidel, an outsider) and his heart.  So an angel appeared to him and told him to send for Peter; meanwhile an angel appeared to Peter and said get ready to go see Cornelius.  The stage was set.

As background, although this story took place after Jesus rose from the dead and ascended into heaven, Peter still clung to some of his old "Jewish" thinking as far as Jews versus anyone else.  Tradition and Jewish law told him not to have anything to do with non-Jews.  But earlier in his life he had met someone named Jesus, and recently he was filled with the Holy Spirit, and much of his thinking had been turned completely upside-down.


Even though Peter’s rational thoughts and gut emotions yelled out “Don’t go!”, he obeyed and went, and when he arrived he began telling Cornelius and family members and guests all about Jesus.  In the middle of what would have been a rather lengthy message about Jesus, we find words meant for you and I today, words describing the real God!  The story tells us that “while Peter was still speaking, the Holy Spirit came on all who heard the message.”

If you want to know what God is like, picture Peter abruptly becoming silent and in awe when the Holy Spirit flooded that house and everyone in it.  God simply couldn’t wait for Peter to finish his sermon; He so wanted to thoroughly bless this Roman centurion, this infidel, this Gentile, as well as his family and friends.  God’s excitement was on display!

This is not the work of a dull, detached, distant record keeper.  Rather, it is the action of a vibrant and personal God who just can’t wait to bless his children.  And YOU in particular!  His Grace is indeed available whether you consider yourself a religious "insider" or, especially, an "outsider"!!! 



QUESTIONS:

1) How important was it, at that time, for a Jew to avoid a Roman soldier?

2) Did the Jewish leaders see anything worthwhile in such a person?

3) Did the Jews think that God would even notice someone like the soldier?

4) However, Cornelius seems to have been searching for something more, searching for the real God.  How important would this be to God?

5) Concentrate on the phrase: "While Peter was still speaking".  Ask God to help you see Peter and Cornelius, and everyone else in that room.  Imagine what Peter learned as the Holy Spirit took over!

6) Why do you think the Spirit simply couldn't wait until Peter finished his sermon?



At the end of various readings in Comfort.Guide, we will have a "Pause", "Reflect" and "Receive" section.  The purpose of this exercise is to help you better understand and to personally absorb the encouragement Comfort.Guide offers.  If you would like, visit the "HOW TO USE" page for a review of "Pause, Reflect and Receive".


PAUSE...  Quiet yourself in His love and invite Him to be with you. 


REFLECT... If you can adsorb only one truth, make sure it is the fact that the Spirit of the Living God, the same Spirit you can ask for now, just couldn't wait!


RECEIVE... If you are like most of us, the Holy Spirit wants to re-shape and re-form some of your beliefs and thoughts and reasoning.  He's ready to fill you with the Grace to know him, and yourself, better!

 
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